Weekly Marriage Meeting

Keeping your marriage strong takes more than love. It requires clear communication, shared planning, and regular check-ins. A weekly marriage meeting helps you and your spouse stay connected, manage your lives together, and prevent misunderstandings before they turn into something more.

Couple using a weekly marriage meeting to organize their week

Why You Need a Weekly Marriage Meeting

Without a dedicated time to talk, important topics get overlooked. When you set aside time each week to review your plans, you create teamwork and connection! This meeting is not about criticism or conflict but about working together as the team you set out to be.

You and your spouse can use this time to:

• Review your upcoming schedules

• Discuss financial decisions

• Plan meals for the week

• Schedule alone time and couple time

  
  

This routine helps you avoid surprises and keeps both of you on the same page.

Weekly Marriage Meeting Outline

Here’s a practical structure you can follow. Feel free to change it to fit your lives:

1. Pray

Start by praying together. There is nothing better than a couple who prays together regarding their lives!

2. Check-In and Emotional Connection

Start by sharing how you feel about the past week. This brief check-in builds trust.

3. Review Schedules

Look at your calendars side by side. Note appointments, work commitments, social events, and deadlines. This helps you coordinate and avoid conflicts.

4. Discuss Financial Decisions

Talk about bills, upcoming expenses, and any financial goals. Decide together on any large purchases or changes to your budget.

5. Plan Meals

Meal planning saves time and reduces stress. Decide on dinners, create grocery lists, and set who will cook or shop.

6. Schedule Alone Time and Couple Time

Balance is key. Plan time for yourself and time together. This might include date nights, hobbies, or quiet time.

7. Any Thing Else

Use this time for anything else on your minds—home projects, family matters, or personal goals.

Tips for Making Your Weekly Marriage Meeting Work

• Choose a consistent day and time that works for both of you.

• Keep meetings short and focused, around 30 to 45 minutes.

• Use a shared notebook or app to track decisions and plans.

• Use a shared calendar where you can send updates to each other.

• Stay positive and solution-focused, avoiding blame.

• Celebrate small wins and progress.

  
  

Using a weekly marriage meeting helps you and your spouse build a habit of communication and cooperation. It reduces stress, improves planning, and deepens your connection. Start with small steps, and soon this meeting will become a valuable part of your relationship routine.